Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Thurs. 3/13-Update

We could sum up today in 2 words: PAIN and SMILES!!! We have really noticed the pain spells to be much more intense in the last 24 hrs. They last anywhere from 5-30 minutes. This morning the dr. came by and said he could start juice today. That has been the one thing that he has wanted since this whole thing happened. Even minutes before that first surgery, he was crying for juice. When the dr. told him this morning, a great big smile came across his face! However, he can only have a tsp. every 10-20 minutes. We're needing to take it very slow to see how his body reacts to it. So far, he has done fine. We kept a very detailed log today tracking EVERYTHING!! We don't think the juice is a cause of the pain spells or vomiting. They were happening before. They ended up not doing the blood transfusion today b/c his red blood cell count was the same as yesterday. However, his surgeon said they may give him some tomorrow and that will help to perk him up. She also told us it normally takes the bowels 21 days to really begin functioning.....we are on day 8 (counting from the 2nd surgery). Caed is doing SO much better with his walking. We don't have to hold his hands now, although HE wants to. Today he walked to the playroom!! (big achievement) We even went inside and he saw a big truck that he wanted to drive. Again, another big moment, as he has not wanted to do ANYTHING!!! We also put him in a wagon and were allowed to take him outside twice today. I know the fresh air was so good for him. Another change today was taking him off his nutrition bag (liquid food) for 6 hrs. at a time. It made it so nice to walk or ride in the wagon without having to drag along the pole. The plan is 18 hrs. on the IV, 6 hrs. off. They also took him off his pain med (Demoral). However he is getting Motrin and Tylenol regularly. (which don't really do much) It was a very hard day for Caed physically. He didn't get much rest. We are posting these pictures of Caed to share with you our recent "joy moments." Like our good friend Greg (aka. Jack) said, they show the power of prayer in a single smile!!! Oh how true that is!! Thank you God for them! However, we also want you to realize 80% of Caed's days are spent in pain.....these happy moments are so few and are scattered throughout the bad ones. Please continue to pray for him! There is nothing we can do to alleviate the pain when he's having a spasm. We basically just have to wait it out. It is very difficult to watch, and you want so badly to take all the pain away and carry that burden for him. Our prayer now is that the spasms become less frequent and not as intense. He is one tough little boy and it's so hard imagining all that he has and continues to endure. Something that I have been speaking over Caed throughout this whole ordeal is "JEHOVAH-RAPHA." (which means THE LORD WHO HEALS!!!!) We ask that as the Lord brings Caed to your mind, you would also join with us in speaking His Name!!! We have already seen his healing power and have faith that He will continue.





9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Lori and Todd, we were so glad to find out about this blog. Every time I read it I cry and praise God at the same time. We love you all so much and will continue to pray for Caed and all of you. God is good!
Amy and Jeff Oldham

Anonymous said...

Lori and Todd, Thank you so much for the update on caed. We love all of you so much and we are continueing to pray for him. You have been through so much. I cry and prase God everytime i read your blog.
Theresa Towns and family

Anonymous said...

I sit here in tears hurting for the Caed-Bear. It wrenches me knowing that he hurts so badly. I have to keep in mind that our god is an artist. I believe God saw ahead to this incident, cried that his child would have to endure pain, then smiled at the awesome outcome. I know that He will somehow use this experience to bring Himself glory through Caed. SO, in a way, this may be Caed's first ministry. We continue to pray and ache for you all as we pass by Celina. Wish we could be with you. Love you so VERY much.

Greg

Robert & Kristi Baudendistel said...

Isn't it wonderful how a child's smile can light up your life. It costs nothing, and yet, is the most precious gift they can give. We are praying for comfort for Caed and your family.

P.S.--We loved the picture of the relative wearing his glasses with the sticky nerf darts on it. It made us laugh through our tears. Laughter and joy really are the best medicine!

Robert, Kristi, Tori, Cal, and Sara Baudendistel

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Anonymous said...

Lori and Todd, Thank you soooo much for placing this blog online. I read it daily and every time I do it seems I cry then I laugh but in the end I say a pray for Caed. I can't even imagine how hard it is for ya'll to see him in so much pain. I will continue to lift your whole family up in prayer. And like you said earlier, Caed will have an awesome testimony someday! We love you Sherri, Erica (and Kaden) Rogers

Anonymous said...

Lori and Todd,

I am so grateful for this blog. Caed seems to be continuously on my mind and going here is such a relief because I feel I can know how he is progressing without having to bother you. Seeing him yesterday was good because he was still Caed, no tubes, awake, etc., but seeing that little rugrat in pain was too much to bear. I so wish I could take his pain from him, and I am not his parent or grandparent. I truly can't imagine how you feel or are handling this. Your strength (and I know where that comes from) is truly amazing. I continue to pray for him and am so hoping that he is better soon! I am also glad to see that the swords came in handy. Everyone needs a little something to vent frustration, right? I am sure dueling with Grandaddy was nice.

Continuing to lift you ALL up,

Marnie

Anonymous said...

Hey guys,
You can't believe how my heart breaks for all of you--having to endure this pain! But you know our God is in control! We're praying for lots more SMILES and lots less pain! Thanks for the blogs--I love knowing what's going on with my little Caed man! Give him kisses from Mrs. Tina and tell him I love him! Also kiss Reagan and Caleb!
love you guys!
Tina and Roger

Anonymous said...

Dear Todd and Lori,

We are a little behind on hearing about Caed. I just finished reading everything, and I am so thankful that God has blessed him and he is doing better...yet, I feel so very sad that he is having to go through all of this. I have never been in your shoes, but I know it must be the hardest thing you have ever done. You are both great and Caed is so blessed to have such strong, God-loving Christian parents. You will all continue to be in our prayers.

David, Libby, Dillon, & Phillip